Sunday, February 10, 2008

Remembering Janice


Janice Gray, the mother of my old friend Dona, recently passed away. She was as glorious a human being and as full of life and love and laughter as anyone I have ever met. I could write pages and pages about her and that still wouldn't do her justice. More importantly nothing I could say could ever properly explain how it felt to be loved by her. When Janice loved you- man, you knew it. I knew it. Even though I won't see her incredibly blue, beautiful, smiling eyes again or watch her throw back her head with a hearty laugh or almost believe her amazingly serious, deadpan face when she was delivering an incredibly witty zinger, I know she lives on. She's in the hearts of all those who were lucky enough to know her.
She and Dona were extremely close. When thinking of an image that would mirror thier relationship this is the one I came up with. It's called "One Heart" and seems appropriate for a Valentine's Day post.
There has been a tribute page set up in Janice's honor. I hope the family posts on the website the picture that was on the flyer at her memorial. There she was, dipping her bare feet in the Atlantic Ocean for the first time. She had her jeans rolled up, head back, arms triumphantly extended and a huge smile on her face. She had written in the sand "I WAS HERE!"
Oh yes, Janice, you most certainly were.

6 comments:

Ben Stables said...

What a Saddening Story, I hope her memory goes on forever

country mouse said...

Angie--this was touching and beautifully said. What a wonderful expression you created in felt! Such an honor.

Kristie Karima Burns, MH, ND said...

What an amazing gift for her memory. You are such an inspiring felter. Thank you for sharing with us all. - Kristie

Mary said...

As always, a beautiful creation, Angie. What a lovely tribute to your friend.

Ana said...

The most sincerest sentiments are the ones that come from the heart. Yours certainly does.

Gumbo Lily said...

I hear your heart.
God bless the memory of Janice.

Jody